A Pretty Little Pocket-book was one of the first books published that was specifically for children. It was published by John Newbery, who pioneered children's literature in the 1700s.The book teaches the alphabet using rhymes and includes a lot of images.
The book includes a curious "letter" from "Jack the Giant-Killer" (of Jack and the Beanstalk fame) to instruct children to behave well. Even then, "favorite characters" were used to teach children valuable lessons.
The book came with a red and black, stuffed ball or "pin cushion" that was used as a behavior tool. If a little girl was good, her nanny or mother was supposed to put a pin on the red side of her pincushion if she was bad, on the black side. When the girl got all 10 pins on the red side, it was recommended that the parents gave the girl a penny. The "ball" was the same as the pincushion but was called a ball due to gender norms of the time.
Lessons found in A Pretty Little Pocket-Book:
Rise Early in the Morning. Pg. 16
Keep themselves clean. Pg. 16
Study and learn their lessons. Pg.
16
Apologize for wrongs. Pg. 16
Not to swear or tell lies. Pg. 16
Say their Prayers. Pg. 19.
- “Make a Bow always when you come
Home, and become instantly uncovered.” Pg. 98
- “Never set in the Presence of thy
Parents without bidding, though no stranger be present.” Pg. 98
- “If thou art going to speak to thy
parents, and see them engaged in Discourse with Company, draw back and leave
thy Business until afterwards ; but if thou must speak, be sure to whisper.”
Pg. 99
- “Never speak to thy Parents
without some Title of Respect, viz. Sir, Madam, &c. according to their
quality.” Pg 99
- “Approach near thy Parents at no
Time without a Bow.” Pg. 99
- “Dispute not, nor delay to obey
the Commands of thy Parents.” Pg. 99
- “Come not into the Room where thy
Parents are with Strangers, unless thou art called, and then decently ; and at
bidding go out ; or if Strangers come in while thou art with them, it is
Manners with a Bow to withdraw.” Pg. 99
- “Quarrel not nor contend with thy
Brethren or Sisters, but live in Love, Peace and Unity.” Pg. 100
- “Grumble not, nor be discontented
at any Thing thy Parents appoint, speak or do.” Pg. 100
- “Come not to the Table without
having your Hands and Face washed, and your Head combed.” Pg. 101
- “Sit not down until thou art
bidden by thy Parents or other Superiors.” Pg. 101
- “Be sure thou never sittest down
until a Blessing be desired, and then in thy due Place.” Pg. 101
- “Ask not for any Thing, but tarry
until it be offered thee.” Pg. 102
- “Find no fault with any Thing that
is given you.” Pg. 102
- “Speak not at the Table ; if thy
Superiors be discoursing, meddle not with the Matter ; but be silent, except
thou are spoken unto.” Pg. 102
- “Eat not too fast or with greedy
behavior.” Pg. 102
- “Eat not too much, but moderately.”
Pg. 102
- “Eat not so slow as to make others
wait for thee.” Pg. 102
- “Make not a Noise with thy Tongue,
Mouth, Lips or Breath, in eating or drinking.” Pg. 103
- “Lean not thy Elbow on the Table,
or on the Back of the Chair.” Pg. 103
- “Blow not thy Meat, but with
Patience wait until it be cool.” Pg. 103
- “Throw not any Thing under the
Table.” Pg. 103
- “Frown not nor murmur if there be
any Thing at the Table which thy Parents, or Strangers with them, eat of, while
thou thyself hast none given to thee.” Pg. 10
A Pretty Little Pocket-Book Intended for the Instruction and Amusement of Little Master Tommy, and Pretty Miss Polly. With Two Letters from Jack the Giant-Killer as also A Ball and Pin Cushion; The use of which will infallibly make Tommy a good Boy, and Polly a good Girl (1787.)