I will no longer be checking my facebook. I have hated
facebook since its inception and was hoping it would fizzle out before I had to
make one. Unfortunately, I did end up having to make one so people without
blogger could follow my blog. It was fun for a while and I made a lot of new
friends, mostly reenactors from units I would never have met in person and for
that I am happy I signed up.
However, it’s just getting annoying now. This site
enables superficial relationships. You are in everyone’s lives without being in
anyone’s life. It provides human interaction on your terms, friendships without
any real investment. It lets you feel connected while not really being connected
at all. The experience is more important than documenting it in detail so your
friends will think you have such an interesting life. (I’m betting you know
people who do this.)
I want to keep my relationships meaningful and my activities
meaningful and there is nothing meaningful about scrolling through 1,000 photos
of someone’s vacation, especially if you are not involved enough in their life
for them to even tell you they are going away.
I will check out people’s photos but only if they mention
them to me personally. You know my phone number, you know my e-mail, you know
my blog; you know how to get in contact with me other than through facebook.
I’d really appreciate it if you would. I know everyone is busy. I am busy, which is
why I want to make my relationships as meaningful as possible. I’d rather spend
an hour with friends than 1,000 hours on facebook. I know this means that I won’t
know what you are doing every hour of the day. I’m looking forward to not
knowing, so we’ll have lots to talk about when we see each other!
I’m not deleting my facebook account, but I
will only be checking it once or twice a month. I much prefer blogs because they give an overview of your activities, not a micro detailed timeline of your life. I get to see your photos and hear your thoughts and feelings. I love reading my friend's opinions, beliefs and ideas. It's much more stimulating than "[Insert vague status update here that will prompt people to ask about something you're dying to tell everyone.]"